1. The idea that people are "born gay" is an assertion; it is not an accepted fact, even in science. I am saying that for those on this forum who wish to state this over and over so people believe it before it is proven. It may be proven someday, but it is not proven as of this writing. I don't see this as changing people from what they were born as (although I recognize many are unalterably convinced of this, albeit with surprisingly little proof).
Well I tried choosing to be straight and it only led to a decade of self hatred, depression, miserable relationships with women that ended in nothing but pain on both sides, and a few suicidal thoughts thrown in there too, sooo...
Why would anyone choose to be gay? It's not nearly as easy as being straight. I mean, I sure as hell don't want to be gay, and yet here I am, a 6 on the Kinsey scale.
I find the evidence that one is born gay far more compelling that the evidence that one isn't. Additionally, I have my own personal experience, which reinforces that.