Update

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Okie, this doesn't sound too good. I wouldn't get too attached to the whole marriage idea right now. As always, I wish you the best.

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Based on what I've heard, I'd get that ring asap.

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Do we get an update today?

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Do we get an update today?

Well he's not going to call her till August, and I have a feeling she won't be calling him anytime before that, so I suspect there's nothing to be updated about.

I was really hoping he'd take my advice.

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I just got back from my cousin's this evening and he gave me a new perspective on why she's not saying a whole lot.  He said that we went so fast in June to get started that she may be just trying to process everything.  She was just able to settle down and catch her breath this past Sunday, so she may still be trying to relax.  She's had a very busy last 5 weeks with trying to plan our best friend's wedding in less than 3 weeks, then working 14 hours a day for 5 days two weeks ago and then Vacation Bible School all last week.  She's been a busy bee lately and she's just now able to sit down and relax and process everything.  I don't blame her for needing space.  I just process it in a different way, by consulting with trusted friends and Christian brothers.  She, evidently, processes things through isolation.  There's nothing wrong with that.  She even mentioned that to me when I talked to her on Sunday.  She said she's been going through a lot lately and needs time to process everything.  She said she would call me when the time is right for her.  She also told me not to call her until she calls me.  So, based on what I heard tonight and from what she said Saturday and Sunday, I'm tempted to give her as long as she needs, within reason of course, though it may be later than August 1.  I don't think it will take that long, though.

He also said that until and unless I hear it from her lips, that I have no reason to consider the wedding off, yet.

All in all, I am still very encouraged and I still have mountains of faith.  I'm not going to let anyone take away the faith that I have or try to discourage me.

This cousin sounds like a bad influence.

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you really shouldnt do this to yourself, bushie.

Agreed, this is just sad.

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I've grown to hate just about everything involved in this thread.

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Oh, this whole thing is starting to make a lot more sense now...

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The buzz is growing louder over BushOklahoma being a possible troll.

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I can tell you that I am no troll and I'm not pulling a Yates here, and there is a 99% chance that she does have my baby.  (It could be 100%, I just haven't heard the official word, yet.)

However, there is a chance we may move our wedding up a couple of months to about February or so, so we can be husband and wife before she gives birth.  That remains to be seen, though.

GM3 is right, this is a lot of the reason I'm being so very patient with her.

I'll post more tonight after work.

This board will probably be going pretty bonkers in anticipation.

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It's Christmas in July, son.

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Many people I talk to on here have really come to believe this, which only makes it that much more fun!

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So wait, does BushOklahoma understand that having unprotected sex with a girl doesn't always make her automatically pregnant? It sounds like he is creating more scenarios within the confines of his mind.

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Alternative theory:  She's not pregnant.  The sex was lousy and, now, she doesn't want to see him again.

That seems logical enough.

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Stop being mean to BushOklahoma please!!!

Mr. Pol, can you confirm or deny BushOklahoma's troll status? What do the tarot cards say?

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Why does Christmas require so much preparation?

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I'd totally get a shirt of bushoklahoma that said "it's time to focus on Christmas" on the back.

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Dude, do not wait that long to get your ring back.

Also, Aizen, your work is VIP Quality, as always. I expect nothing less.

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You both sound extremely immature.

Agreed. Time to grow up, Duke.