They feel men should have to pay child support after losing the custody dispute.
I'm not for any payment of child support whatsoever - after all the decision about whether to abort is up to the woman, so why should the man pay? But if the status quo is that the person is free of the day to day warden-ship of the child has to pay, then what does losing a custody dispute have to do with it?
NOW isn't perfect, but it is many times better than the status quo, where women really are treated as second-class citizens.
How so? Yes, you can find a few poor, odd, backwards people who still believe in male dominance but by and large the civilized world has moved past that. In fact, we've become so scared of your accusations that we make men second-class just to placate you
OH, Liberty - surely you realize that the vast majority of people still view women as inferior to men? It is pervasive in the culture.
The source of many of the resentments you males seem to have is not women or groups militating for equality, but the
patriarchal system which controlls access to women. This is religious, cultural, economic, and no doubt partially based on genetics. You see, in the benighted United States prostitution is illegal and very effectively policed. It is very difficult for many - if not most - men to get what they want (sex).
This creates the appearance of female power, but this power is based upon a patriarchal control of women, and particularly of female sexuality. The patriarchy must ensure that access to poontang is possible only through class advantage. Marriage for example is just an enormously expensive form of prostitution, in the traditional arrangement. The women moves from the control of her father into the control of her husband. Control of access to women is the source of a large portion of the power of the ruling class.
If you want to create a society in which there is little sexually based power, the answer is legalized, fully tolerated prostitution. If males can go round the corner and get high-quality sexual services with desirable women for a price that is within their budget (say at least once a week), then marriage and all that miserable servitude goes away - along with things like child support and whatnot.