The placement of people's most intimate feelings are disturbingly out of whack.
Very well said, and observed, Fez. I've nothing against Steve Jobs or Health Ledger or any of these others, but I agree that these strange reactions reveal a lot about the fairly 'unreal' world many people (particularly Americans) live in, in which they may have a dearth of intimacy and 'real relationships' in their actual day-to-day lives, and place a great deal of importance on narratives with which they actually have no connection.
For me I never had even the slightest thought about people who aren't in my day-to-day direct interaction circle (though I suppose the weirdest aspect of that circle nowadays is that it includes some of you here, but still only a minor part of the whole). In a funny obverse story - lately several of my current and previous colleagues have appeared on Thai television, being interviewed as 'experts' in this-that-or-the-other-thing, and it rather freaked me out to see the unreal and the real so connected.