I wrote that and wondered if anyone would misinterpret it as me saying Manning is delusional. Then, I thought, nah, I should give memphis more credit than that. No, I don't think she is delusional. I was just drawing up a comparison with another sort of identity issue and how I'd treat them.
But yes, I know to you it's "pretending," and that's.. better than nothing, and does no harm.
To anybody, it's pretending. Just like if it were me claiming to be the J man. You need some facts or evidence if you're going to claim that a man has changed into a woman. That's a very bold claim! Otherwise, all you have is a reality denying transubstantiation based religion for the purpose of making people better about themselves.