Update Thread and Other Ramblings by BushOklahoma

[memphis]

No kissing on the first date? What is this, Mayberry?

[memphis]

Just remember to let things take it course. don't rush anything.

Your advice is a bit late.....we've all told him that and all he does is rush.

Well I know that. but if you constantly say that he will eventually listen. I will say it over and over and over again. He will listen when he chooses to.

To this forum, though, they will ALWAYS say I am going too slow, even if I waited an entire year before engagement.  I am listening to Susan and she is listening to me and we are moving at OUR speed, not the speed of an internet forum.  People may see that as too fast, but I don't and she doesn't and other people I've talked to who's been married between 7 and 10 years say we are not moving too fast.  The mothers may think we're moving too fast, but they have a right to say that because it's their own children involved in the relationship and don't want to see them grow up and become less dependent on them.  That's just a motherly instinct, it doesn't mean we are going too fast or too slow.  Plus, we are going slower than my last relationship.  I did not propose to this girl 12 days after meeting her.

If that's your standard, good luck.

[memphis]

Sometimes I wonder if BushOK is real.

Think he could be JSojourner in disguise?

[memphis]

April 2011: 500/1
March 2011: 300/1
February 2011: 50/1
January 2011: 10/1
July-December 2010: 750/1 *
June 2010: 5/4
May 2010: 2/1
April 2010: 3/1


* Outside chance; focus on Christmas.

I see you're now truly a Nevadan.