There's lots of areas in NY that are good. Torie's HUDSON HUDSON HUDSON area is nice, as is Hyde Park. Western NY, particularly Chautauqua County is pretty nice, up from Westfield to Fredonia and even up to some of Dunkirk's suburbs. I haven't been to the Finger Lakes but I'd love to visit.
So, avoiding NYC and LI......yeah, not so bad.
LI is just horrific. Flat, loaded with traffic, ugly, and suck city totally. The LI accent is also butt ugly. NYC is great if you are a rich. Otherwise, it's horrible. Partner Dan makes some noises about NYC from time to time (like having a crash pad there at least). I tell him that that is an extravagance. I even resist staying the night there, absent some special arrangement. We need to catch the 10:45 pm train out - period.
The Finger Lakes are magnificent, and some of the towns on those lakes, while very bourgeoisie, some looking like Main Street in Disneyland, are just as cute as a button, and have lots of cultural events in the warmer months. But man, the snow dude. Snow, snow and more snow - except this year due to El Nino.
You have visited the Shining City on Hill, overlooking the river in the most magnificent river valley on this earth, Grumps?
Of course Angus feels stuffed! He lives in what is perhaps the most obese county in the nation. Fats here, fats there, fats, fats, everywhere.
Skip me, unless you find opining about the greatest state in the nation to be irresistible.