What do you think about dont Ask don't tell latest development?

[Torie]

My gym (Equinox -  Newport Beach) is rumored to have a considerable gay contingent as members. A few fellow gym rats that  I chat with, are no doubt gay (there is this one really effusive bottle blond guy who is or was a professional photographer, and we gossip about that). But it is hard to tell by looking, because most folks are so totally buffed that in that sense everyone looks gay, and some of the women - well let us just say, I would not want to get into a physical altercation with them. No, they don't look like dykes on bikes, but their every muscle is honed, and in the kicking routines I watch some of them go through with their trainers, they scare the heck out of me. One lady boxes with her trainer, and she really enjoys throwing a punch. 

[Torie]

To be honest, I find membership in any gymnasium to be a sign of the gay - I mean to the extent that I would just assume that anyone who goes to a gymnasium is a gay.

I find military men ambiguous - they seem gay, but one can't be sure.

This may shock you Opebo, but there actually are a few straight men out there who are physically fit. And unless you do physical labor for a living, that as a practical matter means you need to go to the gym - regularly.

But yes gays tend on average to be more serious about aesthetics, including the aesthetics of the body, and in particular their own.   Body fat on myself just offends me, and I performed an exorcism on it. I just willed that it be gone, and like magic, it was. And there you have it.