Part 2 of the question. Email on the bill ran 112 to support and 438 to oppose. State wide polling in October by the Paul Simon Institute found 33% in favor of gay marriage, 33% in favor of civil unions with some of the same rights, and 24% opposed to either. I'm fascinated that the media reports this law as if it were from category 2 and uses "some of the same rights" in their stories. There is no difference under state law, so any differences occur only because of federal law, which is not what I heard people tell me they think "some" means.
By those email numbers it seems your district doesn't care to draw a distinction between gay marriage or civil unions, even if there were a differentiation in the language of the bills, but that's just my guess....am I far off?