My situation

[Grumpier Than Uncle Joe]

Do you think she's worth it? If that answer is yes than go for it or you probably won't get the chance again.

Hell my ex is worth it. Right now she's dating someone else and is not talking to me (she said she'd contact me when she's ready now) and I still love her. I may be in another relationship soon myself but that doesn't mean it'll change the fact that I still love her and want to be with her for the rest of my life if the opportunity happens in the future.

Even after getting the heave ho for another guy?

[Grumpier Than Uncle Joe]

Don't ever let your next gf know that sh**t dude....in fact, you might want to edit your post   You can never be too safe.

Inks or Jedi?

[Grumpier Than Uncle Joe]

Jedi

k, good.....i was wondering since you didn't copy any of his post back.

[Grumpier Than Uncle Joe]

I kinda have a girlfriend, but we're not official

Inks.....stop right there.......read that again.....

Just move on, man.

You think you have troubles......read Jedi's posting....that boy has troubles.

[Grumpier Than Uncle Joe]

And it's over.

Apparently I jumped the gun.  I'm still in this - this could actually work out.

Well, my young, optimistic friend, my best advice is to avoid being anywhere near a fan.   Good luck, Inks!

[Grumpier Than Uncle Joe]

And it's over.

Apparently I jumped the gun.  I'm still in this - this could actually work out.

Well, my young, optimistic friend, my best advice is to avoid being anywhere near a fan.   Good luck, Inks!

I missed the fan reference.

When the sh**t hits the fan with her parents, and it absolutely will, I'd avoid being nearby.

[Grumpier Than Uncle Joe]

Pretty much. Since it doesn't sound serious, then there is no reason to put yourself through all this grief. While we're giving out love advice, Jedi, I don't recommend waiting around for your ex-girlfriend to come back to you. If she's dating someone else, you're only hurting yourself by playing the waiting game. Get out there, meet people, have fun, and all of that should help alleviate the pain she may have caused. Love wounds heal with time, I have learned, but continuing to see, interact with and follow the ex around only hurts you.

In the process of. As I said I might be in a relationship soon enough actually. I'm moving on yet not at the same time in that if she breaks up with him and wants to get back together I'll be all for it. The thing is I know she still cares about me in some form and though she is, doesn't want to hurt me. What would actually make it better is if she was talking to me, even just online. But oh well, time is the answer.

Now all that is part of the reason why I haven't been around for almost a month. Super busy with school and having all that dropped on me. Had no desire to do anything here.

I don't mean to be a dick at all, cause I feel for ya, but she KNOWS she is hurting you, so i don't understand how you think she doesn't want to?