Update

[Plant City Rebel]

Here's a little update:

First of all, I wasn't feeling well this morning, so I had to stay home from work, thus I'm posting at an odd time on a weekday.

It looks very likely that I will be able to see and talk to my fiancee' tomorrow.  I'm going to take it upon myself to call her around 9:00 or 9:30 am and get myself over there to see her, so we can talk.  At that time, I'll explain my side of the story and then I'll give the floor to her so she can get out whatever is bothering her.  I still have faith that our relationship will continue, so I'm not worried.  However, though, if it ends, it ends, and I'll collect my belongings and move on.  One of the things I'm going to tell her is that I am still 110% committed to this and that every ounce of my being is committed to making things work.  Even if that means moving the date of the wedding either forward or backward.  I don't know what will transpire tomorrow morning.  I do ask for your prayers.

I will also get official confirmation whether she's pregnant or not.  If she is, I will start preparing to be a father.  If she is not, then we will probably wait until we've actually tied the knot to try it again, even though she will be 31 years old when we're married.

I know I said I would wait one more week until August 1, but I've got to do something.  Its been 3 weeks since I've seen her and I'm getting lonely.  There is a chance I might be able to at least talk to her tonight around 8 or 9.

Again, good for you for taking the initiative--which ever way things go.  If you do stay together, and she isn't pregnant....31 is not by any means ancient when it comes to childbearing age( trust me... I know of what I speak) it really isn't until after 35 they start to worry, and if she doesn't get pregnant right off the bat, you still have time ( plus all the fun trying!). It was good of you to let her have some time,I know it was hard. But it was better for you that you realized that you needed answers as well!   I also know it was harder to open your life up on the internet.  Good luck!  We'll be thinking of you!

[Plant City Rebel]

Why does Christmas require so much preparation?

If he does it like a friend of mine back home does it, he's going to have to start stringing lights next week.......

[Plant City Rebel]

Well I'm actually glad she lied, because without it you would never have understood where this relationship was headed. However I understand that you have been hurt, and i'm you'll get over it, pull yourself up and meet the right one

and on that note !  I know it sounds like a platitude, and a weak one at that; Just remember, the right one usually shows up when you aren't looking for them!  Make yourself happy first and foremost, then they are icing on the cake!

[Plant City Rebel]

BushOK, I'm lost.......why in the world would she complain about giving the ring back "so soon".......unless she was gonna pawn it what the hell good was it?  It's not like she was wearing it.

Something smells fishy here.

It wasn't the ring that she was upset about, it was the laptop I was letting her borrow.  She was e-mailing her best friend who is serving overseas who supposedly has no one else to talk to.

Oh well.  Its my laptop and my ring, and both are back in my possession.

Seriously, they have computers at public libraries, once a week she can hop over there.  Quick question, best guy friend or best girl friend?  That may be the root of it.