Personally, I would say you're an Indie. However, the party that you affiliate yourself with is up to you, because as blagohair.com said, you're the only one who knows what's right for yourself. People are free to join political parties and still be independent at heart, but doing that has become increasingly rare the past decade, and personally I've broken ranks with Democrats on several things but still associate myself with them because they are the party that suits me most. What ever you choose to do, you should consider which party's primaries you would feel more comfortable voting in, if at all. I forgot if your state has open primaries, though.
As others said, I'm glad I read your post.