Have you ever considered therapy?
Can't speak for Indy, but as someone with many of the same issues, there is no way I could even consider just showing up somewhere and talking to a stranger. My campus has free services yet that somehow makes it even worse.
I tried therapy for a couple weeks and, while it was somewhat comforting, I didn't feel it improve my situation.
I've been in therapy for two years and my life has improved dramatically, but it is by an individual basis I guess. I'd still recommend at least trying it.
Yeah, it varies for sure. It didn't do anything for me when I was a teenager, but it helped one of my friends a lot. There's nothing to lose in trying it.