The goal of abortion is murder, the goal of war is not death
A few points:
1. Most people who support abortion rights don't consider it to be murder. You can scream "but it's life!" as much as you want, but many people disagree. It
is an arbitrary line for most of us. And to reduce that down to us being "pro-death" is offensive and why the "pro-life movement" leaves a bitter taste in many of our mouths.
2. Saying "the goal of war is not death" is like saying the goal of chess is not to capture the other player's queen, but to get them to say they lost.