Shocking that an incredibly powerful, all-male (at least, at the levels that count - in terms of power), genuinely unaccountable religious-political institution that is obsessed with upholding Tradition (specifically as defined by itself) is in fact, completely out of touch with American society (indeed, seems to be outright contemptous toward actual human beings).
FTR, I have nothing against Catholics. But the Church as an institution is awful (BRTD, this is why "cultural Catholics" or indeed, ordinary practicing Catholics are infinitely better than the Church hierarchy. Surely you agree with that?).
Of course, I never disputed that. What I've been saying and wondering is that if you don't want to be associated with this, it's quite easy--you can leave. Why not downright perplexes me.