A clerical mishap, I'm sure. Fear not and have patience.
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Could you please relock it? I seriously do not need the temptation.
You did not start this thread. You have no business asking the mods to lock someone else's thread absent of rule violations.
Your inability to resist temptation is the reason Update exists to begin with. Accept that.
The thread is about me. I have every reason and business asking that there be no threads about me at all.
It just seems everyone is so entertained by the stupid thread that they care nothing about whether I am tempted or not. In fact, it's like they WANT me to post there so they can laugh and mock at me at their leisure.
Sometime you should look through the archives to the original Update threads and see how genuinely supportive everyone was. They were excited for you when you found love; they supported you when you looked for new work; they were sincere when they cautioned you to be careful, think things through, take certain paths and gave advice.
And you took a group of sincere, supportive individuals who wanted you to succeed and you kicked them. Repeatedly. If you kick a dog every day for ten years, the first day you come home and don't kick it, it's still going to run and hide. Because it expects it. It has been conditioned. And now these "rats," as you refer to them, have been conditioned to respond a certain way to you.
You own that, Jeff Brown. You. And now you complain that you're being mocked. But I think it's fair to say that you've been mocking us for years in a much more sinister way. Consider this:
- You solicit advice and feedback about events in your life -- you ask for it on this forum
- Individuals who care offer advice based on their own experiences
- You reject all offered advice and do the opposite, claiming that you know best
- You proceed and fail
- You tell all who point to their previously-disregarded advice that they have no right to comment
- You brush off the failure, claiming that you knew best all along
- You solicit advice and feedback about events in your life -- you ask for it on this forum
The fact is, that is mocking, pure and simple. What is mocking -- it's making others feel or appear stupid, right? Isn't that what you're doing, over and over and over, when those who have (or had) your best interests in mind and had significant amounts to contribute to your growth as an individual are dismissed?
The first time this happened, the forum was forgiving. The second, they were annoyed but had your back. Then it happened a third time. And a fourth. And a fifth. Nearly every decision concerning employment, relationships, dieting, exercise ... it all follows that same cycle.
That first time you asked for advice and shared your life on the forum, you got feedback. And then you proceeded to beat the dogs. And you continued beating them for literally years. Jeff, those dogs started out as loyal, happy, tail-wagging companions who wanted to see you be successful. Through constant beatings, you conditioned them to bite. And now you seem baffled as to why they'd snap at you when you enter the room.
Do I understand why the Update isn't enjoyable for you anymore? Sure -- you can't even make a simple statement anymore without being criticized or questioned a dozen times. But don't ever, ever let this truth escape you -- you caused this. By spitting in everyone's faces for literally years, you conditioned the responses you now get. You are responsible for this, and you have to own it.
There are no dumb dogs, Jeff. Only dumb owners. Do with that analogy what you will.