Infant Baptism

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My parents defence of infant baptism was that I was close to death when I was born. That was back of course before 'limbo' was formally abolished by the Church (of course the Church was still infallible despite changing it's mind ) It was also habitual, as most infant baptisms are. My concern is with confirmation. I was confirmed at 11, which is far too young to formally make the choice whether or not you wish to remain Catholic.