Vicar tells wives to 'submit to their husbands'

[memphis]

 the quickest way to get on a woman’s bad side is to abuse her, but the quickest way to get on a man’s bad side is to disrespect him.  

I find it quite the other way around.

[memphis]

 the quickest way to get on a woman’s bad side is to abuse her, but the quickest way to get on a man’s bad side is to disrespect him.  

I find it quite the other way around.

"abuse" was probably not the best word choice, I was looking for a word meaning a combination of "not loving" and "treating harshly"...basically the man is suppose to give the woman respect as the weaker vessel, kinda like how you would favor and treat tenderly a shoulder that has been injured...or like a man treats a woman when he first starts to date her , being careful and respectful to her and making her feel like she is at the top of his priority list.

Give her whatever she wants until she "submits?"

[memphis]

 the quickest way to get on a woman’s bad side is to abuse her, but the quickest way to get on a man’s bad side is to disrespect him. 

I find it quite the other way around.

"abuse" was probably not the best word choice, I was looking for a word meaning a combination of "not loving" and "treating harshly"...basically the man is suppose to give the woman respect as the weaker vessel, kinda like how you would favor and treat tenderly a shoulder that has been injured...or like a man treats a woman when he first starts to date her , being careful and respectful to her and making her feel like she is at the top of his priority list.

Give her whatever she wants until she "submits?"

no, it doesn't mean to continually shower her with expensive gifts, but it does mean to remain a gentlemen even after you've won her heart.  If you've injured your left shoulder, you don't treat it as harshly as you do the right shoulder; rather you treat it with care and gentleness and make sure not to bump it on the doorway as you go through a door.  That is what is meant by:

1Pet 3:7 “7Likewise, you husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honor unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; so that your prayers will not be hindered..”

That doesn’t mean the woman is as fragile as a paper doll, but it does mean she is not to be treated lackadaisically as you would a hardened pair of pliers.  And notice the verse even carries a warning – treat your wife harshly and God may not listen to your prayers.  That’s pretty scary!

I was making fun of most men's intentions when they take a woman out, but whatever.