It may be the case that leaders often do make everything about them, but that doesn't make them good leaders. I think that the best leaders are also team players, and value the people they are serving as much as themselves. It's hard to ignore narcissists whose life goal is to draw attention to themselves by whatever means necessary, but that doesn't mean that we can't do better than choosing them as leaders.
^This
Donald Trump makes solving issues exponentially more difficult by inserting himself into every debate and politicizing everything.