Even if extraterrestrial life existed it would be so far away that it wouldn't be able to visit us. Faster than light travel just isn't possible.
Ultimately it seems all the people "abducted" are either dorks doing some crazy drugs or liars looking to make a quick buck.
Disclaimer: For religious reasons I don't believe there is any other life in the universe. Nevertheless I have always been fascinated by UFOs and the like.
I’ve always found it comic that people believe that if an alien civilization managed to crack faster than light travel they’d spend their time mutilating cattle, anally probing American farmers and drawing the Nazca Lin... my mistake, ‘landing strips’.