Equally hateful, but not equally damaging to contemporary society or individuals. While Christian bashing is not exactly helpful for anything, you can criticize the culture and its effects easily without being hateful. The Christian in America also has a much larger emotional safety net than the homosexual who cannot change and is more likely to feel hopelessly isolated and ashamed. I've never heard of teenagers killing themselves because of bullying due to their inescapable belief in the Jesus. The impact of real hatred towards homosexuals is far deeper and much more scarring. To think otherwise in a western country is astoundingly shallow.
Apparently you don't live here. What you just said is very false.