Why is SSM such a big deal?

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Liberal progressives seriously want to see pastors thrown in jail for life for preaching against same sex marriage

Can you cite a single example of this?

Furthermore, the Bible clearly says no one is born gay. 

I've never even heard that in Mississippi. Which verse are you referring to?

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I met my wife for lunch last week. We kissed goodbye on the way out of the restaurant. No tongue or anything excessive -- just a quick peck. No big deal. Nobody cared.

If a same-sex couple had done the same thing, there would have been some grumbling amongst the people eating at the restaurant. Possibly the same-sex couple could have been told not to return (probably not, but you never know with restaurant owners. Remember, we have a "religious freedom" exemption for businesses in Mississippi).

If two gays kissing non-gratuitously in a restaurant is flaunting their homosexuality, did my wife and I flaunt our heterosexuality?