Kaepernick kneeling has nothing to do with veterans or the armed forces. That was one of the dumbest misdirections that the right invented, all so they could talk about everything and anything except police brutality.
Military families have decided that it, indeed, does.
If Eskimos decide that it's anti-Eskimo, does that make it so?
Different military families have decided that Republicans are opportunistically exploiting them as a weapon to hurt Kaepernick and BLM and win votes, and they're pretty sick of it. Do you listen to them?