"Your own paycheck" is only your own because the State has built institutions that makes it possible for social parasites like you to accumulate wealth at the expense of everybody else. The State giveth and the State taketh away.
I love it when someone who wants free stuff calls someone who works 60-70 hours a week a "social parasite" - you are the definition of pathetic.
You can be a parasite, and be rich, yes. There is nothing wrong with giving people free stuff, and you are getting the same amount of rights as poor people, and actually paying the same amount of tax. As you live in a society, you contribute to the society, to give free "stuff".