Never heard of the first one but wife beating only became illegal in Common law systems in the nineteenth century (due to, in part, the influence of nineteenth century feminism). And as for marital rape, at least in Ireland and the UK the first ever prosecutions for that happened in my lifetime...
That depends on what you mean by 'anti-sex' and by 'romantic love'
Not just mortality but also patterns of work and life. While as a totality it is wrong, the idea is still mostly correct if we compare to any modern notion of 'childhood'.