my therapist suspected me of hacking into his bank account via the internet

[© tweed]

a charge of which I am completely and unequivocally innocent.  reason enough to break off the relationship?  has me kind of uneasy -- yes, perhaps I am a moral reprobate, a 'clever' moral reprobate the likes of which he does not often see -- but, how can I heal under the scope of such morbid distrust?

[© tweed]

the context is, during the session, I was sharing my growing obsessive fear of being imprisoned, and how my sleep was interrupted on Saturday morning because I was convinced that I was about to be arrested for certain behaviors, which I will not share here.  somebody had done some fishy stuff with his bank account that Thursday and he was wondering if my guilt had been displaced a bit.

[Pheurton Skeurto]

that's a bizarre story if i've ever heard one

[Kitteh]

that's a bizarre story if i've ever heard one

tweed

[WalterMitty]

tweed lives a bizarre life.

[Torie]

a charge of which I am completely and unequivocally innocent.  reason enough to break off the relationship?  has me kind of uneasy -- yes, perhaps I am a moral reprobate, a 'clever' moral reprobate the likes of which he does not often see -- but, how can I heal under the scope of such morbid distrust?

You probably need a new therapist. You might be upfront, and tell the guy that accused you, about your concerns, and what his professional opinion is. That will put the guy on the spot, and might induce him to put more of his cards on the table, as to why he want there, and what the plan going forward is. That might be interesting. But if someone accuses me out of the blue with no evidence other than the most flimsy circumstantial evidence that because perhaps you said A and B along with the way in therapy about something, that ratchets up the odds way up that you did C, that person after being flushed out, would be l'histoire in my life. I would find the accusation unprofessional, and therefore even more offensive than if someone on the street dropped that dime on me.

[Grumpier Than Uncle Joe]

I'd like to know exactly why, other than, of course, it's tweed.

[ilikeverin]

Of course; that's completely unprofessional.  Seek whatever closure you need, then look elsewhere.

[opebo]

...I was convinced that I was about to be arrested for certain behaviors, which I will not share here.

Oh my curiosity is piqued!

[Kitteh]

...I was convinced that I was about to be arrested for certain behaviors, which I will not share here.

Oh my curiosity is piqued!

Tweed was obviously catfishing, which is apparently a crime punishable with the death penalty nowadays.

[Queen Mum Inks.LWC]

Damn... Tweed was my second guess for the thread creator.

[opebo]

...I was convinced that I was about to be arrested for certain behaviors, which I will not share here.

Oh my curiosity is piqued!

Tweed was obviously catfishing, which is apparently a crime punishable with the death penalty nowadays.

It is? Who got killed for that?

[Queen Mum Inks.LWC]

How much did he actually suspect you?  Did he legitimately suspect you, or is this a Bushie-esque story?

[© tweed]

How much did he actually suspect you?  Did he legitimately suspect you, or is this a Bushie-esque story?

when I was sharing my Saturday morning experience of fearing being arrested on certain charges, of which I am more or less innocent, he kept leading... "did you do anything with financial institutions..?  banking systems...?"  his account had been hacked and because I have shared a history of doing less-than-kosher, if not necessarily illegal, things via my computer, 'below-the-board' as he put it, he suspected I was the one.

[Supersonic]

lol

[Grumpier Than Uncle Joe]

Is is sooooooooo outrageous to suspect Tweed?

[Antonio the Sixth]

loltweed

[minionofmidas]

Your therapist requires therapeutic help.

Also, I do not of course believe your protestations of innocence.

[Grumpier Than Uncle Joe]

Yeah, this thread could just be serving the purpose for tweed to point to to fake his innocence.  "But why would I have made this thread on this random website if it really was me!?"

He also never addressed the now deleted post which asked him if it's a surprise given he hacked his ex gf's facebook account.