children can be seen as a form of investment. as tuition rises, perhaps not a very good one. but the more earning power I have the more likely I'll be to coup my mother up in a room downstairs, when I have a family. she probably has enough money now but the point holds. a lifelong laborer at Taco Bell wouldn't even be able to provide our dead zero man with free tacos: I doubt those poor souls even get an employee discount on the meals.
People don't want to br dependent on their kids. And there's no guarantee the kids will be willing. Retirement needs to come first. There are loans for school. There are no loans for retirement.
Do retirement needs come first? It might just be because of the neighborhood I live in, but that attitude seems very odd to me.
Not everyone has Indian parents with postgraduate degrees who bring in six figures...